The Reconnected Woman

For the capable one everybody leans on, who handles it all on her own,has set goals and hit every target,and ignored the price she's paid.

This monthSelf-Recognition for Unconditional Worth

Next open session · Tuesday 20 October · 08:30 CET

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You get clear on what you want,
you communicate it,
and you feel the shift when it happens.

In four weeks without slowing down or doing less.

Watch This First

"I've got no interest in you becoming more feminine, or more spiritual, or more of anything. I want to see you being more of you."

Sounds Like You?

You said yes again this week. There was no room for it.
You're the one everyone talks to. When they ask about you, you say you're good.
You hit the target. The target moves.
You cancelled on someone who matters. Again.
You're holding it together for more people than you'd admit to.
You keep it to yourself and sort it on your own, because that seems kinder, or more efficient.

You're winning. You're delivering.And you're the only one who feels what it costs.

You've had two options. Neither works.

“Slow down. Do less.”

Like being asked to stop being you.

“Push harder.”

You're already at full capacity.

Same place

So this is about doing different.

Not ready? Take the Priority Audit.Ten minutes to find out which priority gives you the most return. Free results emailed for your reference.

How It Works

01

Get Clear On What You Want

The personal unmet values and needs.

02

Ask For It

Asking for, and declining, with real intention.

03

Notice The Shift

It's never what you expected.

A simple outcome you already know you should have.So why haven't you?

The Relational Connection System™ VisionValuesVelocity

Be Clear On What This Is

What This Isn't

No sage
No palo santo
No goddess circle
No womb wisdom
No priestess

We're not asking you to soften or surrender.

This is somewhere your competence has nothing to do.

Not A Women's Circle

No performance of it.

Not A Sisterhood

No loyalty pact, no comfort without change.

Not A Friendly Coffee Chat

No deflection into talking about other people.

Your friends can't do this

Friendship runs on co-regulation. You leave feeling better and nothing has changed.

Put yourself in a room of women exactly like you and you'll find a way to help. You always do.

Every other room like this one is run by someone exactly like you.

The Difference

When were you last seen, heard, witnessed and held in a masculine presence without a romantic intent?

You've been over-functioning your masculinity to make up for the masculine you didn't get from the men in your world. Put it down for a change.

Structure is held
Someone else facilitates the room, the logistics, the pace.
It's taken care of
Nothing here for you to do.
Nothing to manage
Say the true thing. No cleaning up after it.
No scorecard
Nothing to win, so your competence has nothing to do.

What Changes

You already have the integrity.
It points outward.

Pointed outward

Our work here is turning it inward. Same standard, turned inwards.

Daniel Lawson

I don't know what it's like to be a woman. I'm not one.

I do know what it's like to be obsessed with productivity and to compete for success.

Business development, tech company, Australia. I hit my target and it cost me my soul. The next year the number went up another 10%.

I resigned. Then I lost my sense of identity.

I got out. And I understand the codes.

ICG Accredited6 Years CoachingGlobal Facilitator

What kind of conversation to expect?

A recent summary of one of our sessions.

The Reconnected Woman — a summary of a recent session

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"Life is not about trying to feel better. Life is about feeling more."

From women inside

“This time I stood my ground. He said it's the first time in fourteen years I'd really discussed something with him, and the first time he understood me.”

Christine

On ending a disagreement she'd normally have absorbed.

“I bit the bullet. I'm not going to sit with this any longer. It's terrifying, and I feel very proud of myself.”

Dani

On the business she'd kept in the background for six years.

“I'm more tapped into myself, and because of that everybody around me can be more tapped into themselves.”

Julia

On what ninety minutes a week changed.

What We Stand For

Our standards together

Your Space

Not for the women. Not to contribute.

Your Truth

That's the contribution. Performance is at the door.

Punctuality

Show up like it matters, because you do.

Curiosity

Over judgment. Of each other, and of yourself.

Accountability

One intention out of every session. Yours to keep.

One Intention

An outcome specifically for you.

And the line you'll hold to meet it.

The first session of every month is open.

This cycle

SeptemberSelf-Recognition for Unconditional Worth
OctoberPersonal Responsibility for What You Want
NovemberPersonal Needs for Giving Yourself First
DecemberEmotional Space for Clarity on What Matters
JanuaryClear Boundaries for Certainty Under Pressure
More coming

The transformation stacks, join anytime.

Free

Tuesday 20 October08:30 CET / 14:30 GMT+8

Online, wherever you are

Come, sit in it, and decide from the session rather than from this page.

Stay, and the four weeks run like this.

Figure out what you want, and ask for it.

One live session a week, in four-week cycles
Live facilitation and hot seat work
Access to the group between sessions
First access to new frameworks and resources
Complimentary 1:1 call on week 6

€89 a month, and your membership price is grandfathered. It never increases as long as you stay. Memberships roll over monthly. Cancel anytime.

The short application first is to ensure a strong mutual fit, for you and for our community.

After Four Weeks

You'll own a new experience of your life.

Continue to build upon it

Build the reps, with the same one or a different one.

Continue more personalised

Reconnect, 1:1, with your membership included.

Continue alone

Take what you've gained, and celebrate your wins.

Common Questions

Before You Come

Isn't this just another women's circle?

No. Most are built around becoming more feminine, and there's a performance in that. Here we call it as it is, so you can put something down instead of picking more up.

Why is a man hosting it?

Because the women who join want a healthy masculine presence in their life, one they are not being led by, competing with, or taking instruction from. Just the masculine holding the room, so they can stop for a change.

I have great friends. Do I need this?

Friendship runs on co-regulation and the women you'd go to are running your operating system. I'm not here to be your friend.

Can I come once before I decide?

Yes. The first session of every month is open and there's no charge for it. Come, sit in it, and decide from the room rather than from this page. After that it's €89 a month, and you're grandfathered: your price never increases as long as you stay.

Where does it run?

Online, so you can join from wherever you are. Nothing to travel to and nothing to arrange around it.

Do I need to attend every session?

No. Life moves and the group knows it. Come when you can, and know that the women who turn up regularly are the ones who feel it shift.

When do sessions run?

One sitting time, set so it works across the time zones the group is spread over, and we stay fluid with what the group asks for. Come to the open session and you'll see how it sits with your week.

What does the fee include?

Facilitation, hot seat work, resources, and the people you'll meet. It's largely a filter.

Are there upsells coming?

No. There's the 1:1 Reconnect Program if you decide you want more, faster, deeper, and your membership comes with it. Same work, same direction. More personal.

Ready?

Figure out what you want,and ask for it in four weeks.

Next open session Tuesday 20 October. Free to attend, short application form first.